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18 Stars Who Came Out In 2015 (But You Probably Didn’t Hear About It)
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18 Stars Who Came Out In 2015 (But You Probably Didn’t Hear About It)

In 2015, coming out still matters.

The more people who share their true and authentic identities, the more chances to erase outdated and false stereotypes about what it means to be queer.

When celebrities and public figures open up about who they are, their visibility can be especially useful in changing hearts and minds. Still, coming out today often isn’t the dramatic affair it has been for many people in the past. More and more stars now choose to make declarations about their sexual or gender identities in understated ways, like discussing a partner in an interview, rather than opting for splashy cover stories.

In fact, of the 19 notable people below, we’re willing to bet that you probably didn’t even know a good handful of them had come out. Check out our list below and add any other important coming out stories from the last 12 months you think people should know about in the comments section.

  • Michael Angelakos
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    Michael Angelakos, the lead singer of the band Passion Pit, came out as gay in November during an interview on author Bret Easton Ellis’s podcast

    Angelakos told Ellis, “I don’t really know what happened, but it’s just one of those gut feelings. It’s the same gut feeling I had when I said, OK, I kind of just need to talk to people about the fact that I am. I’m gay. And that’s it. It just has to happen. This was exactly the type of situation where I don’t feel like I’m being threatened.”
  • Lily-Rose Depp
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    The model and daughter of Johnny Depp came out as sexually fluid in August via a friend’s post on Instagram.

    In November, Johnny Depp opened up about his daughter saying, “I already knew because she tells me everything — she’s not afraid to say anything to me. We’re super-tight and I’m very proud of our relationship. Lily’s really together — she’s a sharp kid and one of the smartest human beings I have ever met.”
  • Jussie Smollett
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    The actor, singer and star of the hit series “Empire” came out as part of the queer community in March. Smollett stopped short of using a label to define his sexuality, instead stating, “It was really important to me to make sure that it got across that there is no closet.” He added, “There’s never been a closet that I’ve been in. I don’t own a closet, I got a dresser, but I don’t have a closet, but I have a home and that is my responsibility to protect that home.”
  • Miley Cyrus
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    Miley Cyrus came out as pansexual in August while speaking with Elle UK.

    The pop star, who has long been an advocate for the queer community, said, “”I’m very open about it – I’m pansexual... But I’m not in a relationship. I’m 22, I’m going on dates, but I change my style every two weeks, let alone who I’m with.”
  • Nyle DiMarco
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    “America’s Next Top Model” winner Nyle DiMarco came out as sexually fluid in October. 

    He made the announcement on Twitter after a fan asked him whether he was into “boys or girls.”

    DiMarco is the show’s first openly sexually fluid winner and also its first deaf winner.
  • Reid Ewing
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    The “Modern Family” star announced he is gay in November.

    After a fan on Twitter asked if he “just came out” in a previous Tweet, Ewing responded, “I was never in.”

    While Ewing may have been out to his family and friends and coworkers, it was the first time he publicly addressed his sexuality.
  • Angel McCoughtry
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    WNBA star Angel McCoughtry came out via Instagram in April saying: “Yes we been discriminated against! We lost friends ! Family members are upset! They said i disgraced my religion! One thing i do know is that LOVE is a great feeling! My last overseas team threatened my job if i didn't write a fake letter on social media saying my relationship was a lie. But all i know, Love is a great feeling!”
  • Joel Grey
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    The “Cabaret” star came out as gay in January at the age of 82.

    Grey, who was married to actress Jo Wilder for 24 years, and is father to “Dirty Dancing” star Jennifer Grey, said his sexuality was not a secret to friends and family, but that “it took time to embrace that other part of who I always was.”
  • Gus Kenworthy
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    The world champion freeskier and Olympic silver medalist came out in October on Twitter, telling followers of his sexual orientation in a straight-to-the-point message which read simply, “I am gay.”
  • Trevor Moran
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    YouTube star and former “X-Factor” hopeful Trevor Moran came out as gay in October. 

    Moran, 17, released a music video for his new song, “I Wanna Fly,” in September that hinted at his sexuality, but he opted to make a more formal announcement in a clip which hit YouTube Oct. 9

    “Basically — if it’s a shocker to any of you — I’m gay,” Moran told his nearly one million subscribers in the six-minute video. He then clarified, “I don’t feel like I was ever in the closet. I feel like I was in a glass closet.”
  • Austin & Aaron Rhodes
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    YouTube stars, models and “Scream Queen” actors Austin Rhodes (L) and Aaron Rhodes came out to their father at the same time in January — and taped the emotional moment, thereby creating what became one of the most viral coming out videos of the year.
  • Yusaf Mack
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    The professional boxer first came out as bisexual in November after claiming he was drugged and forced into performing in a gay porn film but two days later said that he is, in fact, a gay man.  
  • Ingrid Nilsen
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    YouTube sensation Ingrid Nilsen made a huge reveal in June, telling fans in an emotion-filled video posted to YouTube, “I’m gay. It feels so good to say that!”

    “I’m shaking right now because this moment is real and it’s here. And I’ve been waiting for this.”
  • Tamal Ray
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    Great British Bake Off“ contestant Tamal Ray came out as gay in September.

    The baker and reality star was a breakout contestant on the beloved British TV competition. When quizzed about how the show has impacted his dating life, he said: “I wouldn’t have a girlfriend, I would have a boyfriend… But I am single at the moment.”
  • Adam Rippon
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    The figure skater came out as gay in 2015 in Skating magazine.

    “I want to be a relatable example,” Rippon said. “And I want to say something to the dad out there who might be concerned that his son is a figure skater. I mean look at me; I’m just a normal son from small-town Pennsylvania. Nothing changed. I’d just like to be a good role model. I’ve been honest with myself the whole time. I worked hard and loved what I did.”
  • Janae Marie Kroc
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    The world champion and world record holding powerlifter came out as transgender in July. 

    Kroc, who is also the first transgender person to be featured in Muscle & Fitness magazine, told The Huffington Post: “What’s important here is that this isn’t about being a boy or a girl or something in between — it’s about being who you are, your true authentic self and there are a lot of people in this world that feel like I do and they’re afraid to be themselves for fear of hate and discrimination.”
  • Eliot Sumner
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    The child of Sting and Trudie Styler came out as non-gendered in December 2015.

    “I think forever I was trying to figure out maybe … what I am,” Sumner said in an interview with The Evening Standard. “But I don’t think anyone should feel pressured to have any kind of label or tag on them ... Me, I don’t like to be put down to a specific thing. We’re all human beings.”
  • Holland Taylor
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    The star of “Two and a Half Men” and “Legally Blonde” opened up about her sexuality in November.

    The 72-year-old actress, who got a 2013 Tony Award nomination for her solo Broadway play, “Ann,” revealed she’s in a longterm relationship with a woman, who sources have said is “American Horror Story” star Sarah Paulson, when WNYC’s Anna Sale asked her if she’d ever consider marrying.
  • Caitlyn Jenner
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    Caitlyn Jenner came out as transgender in April during an interview with Diane Sawyer.

    In June, Jenner presented as female for the first time and revealed her new first name on the cover Vanity Fair magazine. 

    The Olympian and reality show star was also named Women of the Year by Glamour magazine and the most fascinating person of the year by Barbara Walters. Still, not everyone was happy with many of Jenner’s political and social moves and she faced criticism for her conservative views, meeting with an anti-LGBT preacher and more.

via The Huffington Post

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Kindergartener Allegedly Barred From School Because She Has Two Moms
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Kindergartener Allegedly Barred From School Because She Has Two Moms

A California Christian school is feeling the heat after reportedly rejecting a kindergarten student because she has two moms. 

Sheena and Lashaune, who have asked that their last names not be used, say a pastor at San Diego’s Mt. Erie Christian Academy told them that their 5-year-old daughter would no longer be permitted to attend the school because of their relationship, ABC 10 reports. This news, they say, came as a personal shock, especially since their daughter had already attended preschool there. 

“If we knew from the beginning that this was unacceptable, they didn’t condone or believe in this, if it was such a big deal, we would have never started her off there,” Sheena told the news station. “I would never put my child’s emotional wellbeing in an unstable setting like that.”  

The couple, who called the experience “heartbreaking,” now say they are now planning to file a civil rights lawsuit against the school. 

While school administrators have not commented about the case to the media, ABC 10 cited a woman identified as “Kailyn” who described herself as the director of Mt. Erie, who told them that although the school has a non-discrimination policy in place, that the “Bible says homosexuality is a sin,” and that “we don’t condone any sinful lifestyles.”   

Meanwhile, a passage in the Mt. Erie Christian Academy handbook cited by Salon and other media outlets reads as follows: 

The school reserves the right, within its sole discretion, to refuse admission of an applicant or to discontinue enrollment of a student. This includes, but is not necessarily limited to, living in, condoning or supporting sexual immorality; practicing homosexual lifestyle or alternative gender identity; promoting such practices; or otherwise having the inability to support the moral principles of the school.

Attorney Eugene Iredale told ABC 10 that, as a private, religious institution, Mt. Erie is allowed to bar a student whose parents’ lifestyle doesn’t meet their beliefs. Still, a number of prominent lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) rights advocates are crying foul. 

“The least Christian thing I could think of is turning away a child,” Rev. MacArthur Flournoy of the Religion and Faith Program at the Human Rights Campaign said in a statement on HRC’s website. “The message this school is sending to this child is that God is not there for her nor for her parents. There’s absolutely nothing Godly in their actions.”

Added Johanna Eager, Director of HRC Foundation’s Welcoming Schools program: “There is no doubt substantial harm is done to schools, children, teachers and families when a school tells a student that something is wrong with them or their family.”

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LGBT Women Say They Are Tired Of Hearing These Things
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LGBT Women Say They Are Tired Of Hearing These Things

“Why are you wearing dude’s clothes?” “You just haven’t met the right man.” “You don’t look gay... or bi... or queer.”  

These are just three of the many ugly stereotypes and intrusive questions HuffPost Live’s Alex Berg dissects in this new video, “Things LGBT Women Are Tired Of Hearing.” 

Along with menswear blogger Ariam “Sara” Geffard and human rights advocate Cherno Biko, Berg sheds insight into her personal experiences and offers a refreshing alternative, too.  

“Instead of these questions and statements, you could ask us how to get involved in the fight for adequate health care and housing and other resources that not all LGBT women have,” she says. “Ask how to support us at work and how to make sure we stay safe in the streets — because we still don’t have job protections and guaranteed safety.”

One way to start, of course, is to share this video, because “knowledge is power.”

via The Huffington Post

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Teen Says This ‘Lesbian’ T-Shirt Got Her Suspended From School
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Teen Says This ‘Lesbian’ T-Shirt Got Her Suspended From School

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11 Lesbians In History You Don’t Know But Should
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11 Lesbians In History You Don’t Know But Should

When we think of our lesbian pioneers, women like Ellen DeGeneres and Billie Jean King presumably come to mind. But we at The Huffington Post wanted to teach you a little somethin’ somethin’ about your history in honor of October’s lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) history month. Below, feast your eyes on a group of undaunted ladies who helped paved the way for women and their women-loving ways, and check out the video above for HuffPost Live’s full conversation on lesbian history from the ancient times to now. 

Sappho
Born on the Greek island of Lesbos around 615 B.C., this poet wrote of her yearning for women. Her name and place of birth have become synonymous with women who love women. 
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Queen Christina of Sweden
This member of Sweden’s royal family was crowned queen in 1644, though she renounced the throne a decade later. Queen Christina, widely considered to be a lesbian by her biographers, was played by Greta Garbo in the aptly titled 1933 film “Queen Christina.”
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Jane Addams
As one of the pioneering leaders of the women’s suffrage movement, Jane Addams — a never confirmed but rumored lesbian —  founded the Hull House in Chicago in 1889 and the Women’s International League for Peace and Freedom in 1915. If that wasn’t enough, she won the Nobel Peace Prize in 1931.
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Rita Mae Brown
One of the most significant lesbian-themed novels in history is Rita Mae Brown’s Rubyfruit Jungle, published in 1973. The activist, New York Times best-selling author and feminist icon — who says she was kicked out of the National Organization for Women — fought to get the women’s movement to accept lesbians
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Gladys Bentley
Blues singer Gladys Bentley reportedly married a woman publicly in 1931. Enough said. 
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Barbara Gittings
Hailed as being one of the longest-serving and most fearless activists in the lesbian community, Gittings founded the New York chapter of The Daughters of Bilitis, picketed the White House in the ‘60s and counseled gay people who were discriminated by the government. She died in 2007.
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Audre Lorde
As a self-professed black, lesbian, feminist mother, poet, warrior, Ms. Lorde fought injustices against the marginalized throughout the mid-20th century through her revered literary works. Despite many trying to silence her, she fearlessly embraced her identities. 
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Del Martin & Phyllis Lyon
One of America’s best known lesbian couples, Martin and Lyon, were together from the early 1950s until Martin’s death in 2008. In 1955, they founded the Daughters of Bilitis — the first social and political organization for lesbians. 
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Patricia Highsmith
In 1952, novelist Patricia Highsmith published the novel The Price of Salt — the inspiration behind the highly-anticipated lesbian drama “Carol,” starring Cate Blanchett and Rooney Mara. Also included in her body work are the famous novels Strangers on a Train, which later became an Alfred Hitchcock film, and The Talented Mr. Ripley.
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Barbara Jordan
In 1972, Jordan, born and raised in Houston, Texas, became the first southern black female elected to the U.S. House of Representatives. Although she never came out publicly, her Houston Chronicle obituary mentioned her 20-year relationship with Nancy Earl. 
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Join the conversation! What lesbian pioneers come to mind for you?
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This Is What It Looks Like When A ‘Star Wars’ Nerd Marries A ‘Star Trek’ Geek
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This Is What It Looks Like When A ‘Star Wars’ Nerd Marries A ‘Star Trek’ Geek

Couple Linda Choi and Ace Cheng wanted to let their nerd flags fly at their June wedding.

“We got excited about sci-fi elements being a part of the wedding, but not in a cheesy way,” Linda told The Huffington Post. 

At the pair’s June 6 wedding at Sunstone Winery in Santa Ynez, California, they successfully weaved together their love of “Star Wars” and “Star Trek” in the most tasteful way.

It started with the spectacular invitations, designed by the bride’s BFF Heather Cassils. On them, Ace is rendered as a Stormtrooper and Linda as a Vulcan.

 

One of the most awesome elements? All of the “Star Wars” characters from the 501st Legion — a fan-based costuming organization — that showed up ready to party. 

The Stormtroopers also doubled as flower girls at the ceremony — an excellent idea courtesy of planner Nam Lam of Modern LA Weddings.

One of Linda’s best friends surprised her by having some guests wear Vulcan ears.

At the reception, there was a light saber dance party that was not to be missed.

And a light saber cake-cutting too.

“We really wanted our wedding to be spectacular for our guests so that they left full of food, wine, and ready for more at the after party,” Linda told HuffPost. “We really felt it was important to make a statement for queer weddings in general particularly since the U.S. Supreme Court decision was set to come out that month.”

See more photos from the couple’s big day below:

See Linda and Ace’s complete wedding album here.

via The Huffington Post

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